The Thomas-Kilmann Conflict Mode Instrument (TKI) is a superb tool that helps clients identify and break unresourceful patterns in handling conflict with others. For more than four decades, TKI has been the leading conflict resolution assessment. Show Created by Ralph H. Kilmann, Ph.D., and Kenneth W. Thomas, Ph.D., TKI measures the way conflict is handled in relation to two behavioral dimensions: Assertiveness (the degree to which one satisfies their own concerns) and Cooperativeness (the degree to which one satisfies another person’s concerns). The above two dimensions define the following five TKI conflict handling modes:
Everyone has the capacity to use each of the five modes; however, in my experience, most tend to primarily use one to three modes consistently. Coaching helps clients break unresourceful patterns of behaviors and adapt new, effective ones. That can be accomplished through awareness of one’s preferred TKI conflict handling mode(s)—as well as the remaining modes not typically accessed. Coaching often focuses on developing the capacity to slow down, assess the situation at hand and mindfully choose which TKI mode would likely be the most effective in the situation. This results in shifting to an empowered response versus knee-jerk reaction. Whether in an individual or group setting, coaching can help clients explore when using each of the five modes may, or may not be, effective in conflict situations. From basic coaching questions, clients discover the following, drawing on their work-life examples. While collaborating or compromising are typically deemed the best approaches to conflict through coaching with TKI, insight is gained in the realization that any one of the five modes can be the most effective approach to use, depending on the situation. Clients consistently realize and appreciate that it can be ineffective to use only one of the five modes in handling all conflict situations and that their least used modes present stretch opportunities for growth. Through coaching with TKI, clients quickly realize the value, and their capacity, in leveraging different levels of assertive and cooperative behaviors through the five modes to match the situation at hand. Imagine a world where everyone used TKI in conflict situations—what a wonderful world it would be! © Carolyn Hamilton-Kuby The conflict management style you choose depends on the situation’s urgency and your long-term goals By Tom Moriarty for Plant Services Magazine Plant Services, November 12, 2018 Conflict in the workplace is very destructive. It makes people reluctant to work together. But what causes conflict? The simple answer is that conflict happens whenever two parties don’t see eye-to-eye. During everyday activities, conflict comes from ambiguity, gaps, and overlaps in roles and responsibilities among individuals and work centers. If there is urgency, such as when production is disrupted because of equipment failure, conflict is generated by differences in objectives. Operations wants the system up immediately. Maintenance folks want time to repair the system so that it will not soon fail again. How do you develop guidance or resolve conflict in a way that brings people and work centers together? The first thing to do is to understand conflict management styles. Conflict management styles can be thought of relative to their position on two dimensions. The first dimension is the extent to which the first party is assertive and satisfies its own concerns. This is shown in the vertical axis in Figure 1. Toward the low end of the axis is a lack of assertion – ultimately, submissiveness. Toward the high end is assertion, and ultimately aggressiveness. The second dimension is the extent to which there is cooperation with the other party, represented by the horizontal axis. Within the scope of the assertiveness and cooperation axes, there are five styles for conflict management:
Contact Tom to ask about the two-day Productive Leadership Workshop; or (321) 961-4306. Which conflict management style is high in assertiveness and high in cooperation?Collaborating – This style is high in assertiveness and high in cooperation. It emphasizes a win-win solution that gets the greatest satisfaction for both parties. It involves understanding conflict as healthy and normal.
What is an assertive style of conflict?Assertiveness means expressing your point of view in a way that is clear and direct, while still respecting others. Communicating in an assertive manner can help you to: minimise conflict.
Which is the most assertive and most cooperative style?Collaborating is both assertive and cooperative. When collaborating, an individual attempts to work with the other person to find a solution that fully satisfies the concerns of both.
What is assertive conflict resolution?Assertiveness is communicating your opinions, feelings, and needs in a way that is clearly understood by others without disrespecting their opinions, feelings, and needs.
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